L.A.C.'s Life

How to Bring a Shy Guy out of His Shell

1. See him when he is in his element.
2. Compliment him. 
3. Say his name a lot.
4. Ask open-ended questions.
5. Ask for help with something.
6. Ask about his interests.
7. When leaving, say you’d like to see him again.
8. Try writing notes.
9. Touch him gently or even give him a mini massage.
10. Make the first move yourself.
11. Be patient, and don’t rush things.

How to Like Someone You Dislike

1. Beware the glamor effect.
2. Find your own place of self respect.
3. Don’t over-analyze their behavior.
4. Realize that you will have to get over this person.
5. Focus on why you should dislike this person’s attitude toward you rather than on why you like them.
6. Protect yourself by disengaging.
7. Stop talking about this person to anyone else. 
8. Get support from family and genuine friends or even from colleagues or team members you know you can trust. 
9. Get on with your life in a more positive and self-thoughtful manner.

How to Keep Your Parents on Good Terms

1. Stop blaming your parents for everything

2. Stop slamming doors.

3. When they say do whatever you want, don’t do whatever you want.

4. Never insult them in front of others.

5. Never say your friends parent/parents are/is better.

6. Do not ask again and again.

How to Stop Falling in Love

1. 1
   Don’t flirt. Flirting sends the message that you like the person.
2. 2
   Start calling them a friend. This will train you to remember that that is how you think of them.
3. 3
   Look for reasons why you can’t love them. Are they too clingy? Do they treat your friends wrong? Are they too secretive?
4. 4
   Figure out why you keep falling in love. Is it because you let your significant other weasel his/her way into your heart?
5. 5
   Distance yourself from that person. Don’t hang out with them as much.
6. 6
   Stop doing all those little things like imagining what your name would be if you married them, doodling on the phone by writing out their name in bubble letters and such.
7. 7
   Discover what it is that makes you want to fall for them. Do you need more people in your life? Are you lonely? Sometimes maybe all is is that you need more friends to fill your life with and have been looking to one person to fill that void.
8. 8
   Learn how to love yourself more than anyone else